Bobrisky Duped in Online Romance Scam, Loses $990 and Warns Fans Against Digital Deceit

In an unexpected twist, Nigerian socialite and popular crossdresser Okuneye Idris Olanrewaju, famously known as Bobrisky, has fallen victim to an online romance scam, losing a total of $990 to a fraudster who cunningly played on emotions and trust. The incident, which the celebrity shared via his Instagram page on Sunday, has left fans stunned and sparked conversations around digital scams and emotional manipulation.

Bobrisky, known for his bold online presence and controversial lifestyle, recounted how he became entangled in the scam over the course of several months. According to his account, the scammer initially approached him through direct messages on Instagram, posing as a potential love interest based in the United States. The individual later claimed to have relocated to Canada, further enhancing the illusion of a dynamic and believable lifestyle.

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Bobrisky Warns of Scammers: The Dangers of Online Romance

Detailing the ordeal, Bobrisky confessed his disbelief at being deceived, especially considering his own online savvy and cautious public image. “I never thought in my life I would be a client to anybody,” he wrote in a heartfelt Instagram post. “This guy came to my DM, and we got talking — close to a few months now. He calls me almost every day. He said he lived in the USA but moved to Canada.”

The scam took a financial turn when Bobrisky was approached by a real client from the U.S. interested in a promotional advertisement. The client requested to make a deposit through Cash App—an app Bobrisky could not access from Nigeria. This led him to turn to the man he believed to be his romantic partner.

In what seemed like a harmless favor, Bobrisky asked the man to help receive the payment. The scammer agreed and offered his Cash App details. However, the moment the money landed, the man blocked Bobrisky across all communication channels—severing months of interaction in an instant.

Bobrisky was left stunned and betrayed. “As soon as he got the money, he blocked me immediately,” he lamented. The betrayal was not just financial, but emotional. After months of consistent communication, video calls, and what seemed like genuine concern, Bobrisky found himself at the mercy of a romance predator.

Public Outcry and a Cautionary Tale for Fans

In a bid to warn others, Bobrisky shared screenshots of their conversations and posted a photo of the alleged scammer on his Instagram page. He cautioned fans to be vigilant and avoid falling into similar traps, especially when it comes to mixing online relationships with financial transactions.

“Don’t be fooled by words and emotional manipulation,” he advised. “These people study your lifestyle, mirror your interests, and feed you exactly what you want to hear.”

The post sparked an outpouring of sympathy from fans and fellow celebrities, many of whom praised Bobrisky for his openness and vulnerability. Others pointed out how easily even the most influential personalities can fall prey to sophisticated online scammers.

This incident adds to a growing list of public figures and everyday Nigerians who have been deceived in online romance scams—a trend that continues to rise with the expansion of digital platforms and anonymous communication tools.

According to cybersecurity experts, romance scams are one of the most emotionally devastating forms of fraud. Victims often invest time, affection, and emotional energy into these deceptive relationships, only to discover the betrayal when money enters the equation.

Scammers typically use fake profiles, often with attractive photos and elaborate life stories, to win over their targets. They establish emotional connections over time before introducing scenarios that require financial assistance—be it for emergencies, business deals, or in Bobrisky’s case, simple favors.

A Call for Stronger Digital Literacy and Cyber Awareness

Bobrisky’s story underscores the urgent need for increased awareness around digital literacy, particularly as it relates to social engineering and emotional exploitation online. While many Nigerians continue to use social media as a tool for connection, business, and entertainment, these same platforms are becoming fertile ground for cybercriminals who exploit trust and emotional vulnerability.

Experts advise against sharing sensitive information or money with individuals met solely online, no matter how convincing or emotionally invested the relationship may seem. They recommend verifying identities through video calls, avoiding financial transactions, and reporting suspicious behavior to appropriate authorities or platform moderators.

In Nigeria, agencies like the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) and the Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC) have called for public vigilance and stronger cybercrime reporting mechanisms.

Bobrisky’s Message: Be Careful, No Matter Who You Are

Bobrisky’s unfortunate experience serves as a reminder that anyone can be scammed, regardless of fame or financial status. His decision to go public with the ordeal reflects a growing shift in how victims confront fraud—not with shame, but with boldness and the intent to educate.

While the loss of $990 may be minor to a celebrity of Bobrisky’s status, the emotional breach and public embarrassment reveal deeper layers of damage often unseen in such scams.

“Love is beautiful, but be wise,” Bobrisky wrote in closing. “Not everyone who says they love you means it. Sometimes, they just want what you have.”

As digital interactions continue to shape personal relationships across the globe, Bobrisky’s story is a timely wake-up call: online love can be real, but so can deception—and knowing the difference might just save your heart and your wallet.